(Note: Male silence is definitely golden in female supremacist homes and families. In support of this proposition, I’ve gathered below some provocative quotes from several online sources. Many of these, you may note, first appeared on Mark Remond’s Worshipping Your Wife blog. Mr. Remond deserves much credit for his efforts in publicizing female led families through the wonderful guests posts of “Beckie Sue,” “Ms. Amanda” and “Ms. Jenn.” Alas, the WYW blog is currently inactive, and Mr. Remond informs me that he is no longer in contact with any of those three powerful and persuasive matriarchs. With his blessing, then, I reprint those quotes and others, and make an appeal to anyone, male or female, who has lived in, or is currently living in, a strict matriarchal marriage or female led family to contact me. I would love to hear from you.—Thomas Lavalle, email@example.com)
“Protocol: Men are to speak only when spoken to; Women don’t really care what men have to say; men learn by listening to Women.”
“My Mistress values silence. It’s as though she follows the maxim "Slaves are to be seen and not heard.’ There are stretches of time when we communicate mostly through rituals -- the routines of service, the greeting at the door, the finger pointing at the floor, the raised foot, the empty cup. She smiles and giggles. She’s very sweet to me.”
(Comment by “brian1” to Mistress Kathy’s Femdom101 blog)
“I will not back talk to my wife. I will not interrupt. I will not comment on everything. I will listen carefully so she does not have to repeat things. When she says to stop something that is annoying her, I will stop immediately, no whining, no moping, no bad attitude. I will not disagree with her in public.”
“My greatest thrill in our social life is when we have a few friends over and the wives all talk openly to each other and the men are finally lulled by Ms. Louise’s dominance and their own wives into quiet, sensible submission. The sound of male quiet during female conversation is the music of a matriarchal home. If I excitedly offer my opinion Ms. Louise often returns me to my place with a loving chide: ‘Honey, please, the women are speaking now.’ And that is the motto of our matriarchy: the women are speaking now; men, you’ve had your chance, and please be silent.”
(“Mr. Louise,” “Spousechat Archive Excerpt No. 9”)
“In some female-led households, of course, the wife is encouraged to be more than a bit bossy. One such matriarchal wife instituted the following conversational rule for her mate: ‘If I speak, you must be silent, even if you are speaking first.’”
1-Obey at once.
2-Mind your business.
3-Stay on your knees with your eyes down.
4-Answer Yes Ma’am or No Ma’am.
5-Speak only when spoken to.
6-Never ever expect sex.
7-There are rewards and punishments-so never complain.
(“Seven Rules,” Elise Sutton, Female Domination)
“A wife should not have to bore herself with listening to her husband’s interests, they are not important whereas her interests are of the most import. Any problem at his work he needs to deal with; his purpose is to earn money for her to enjoy. Outside of work he should have no other interest other than serving his wife and the chores she assigns to him. When the husband forfeits all freedom to her, he forfeits any outside interests. He must listen to and pay attention to all his wife says and consider these his interests.
“My husband and I used to talk all the time and I couldn't have cared less what he had to say, but was polite. I finally told him to shut up (yes, I said those words and have learned to use them many times since). The males (husband and son) in my house go about their chores and lives in quiet. It is just normal now. Our two daughters and I are quite talkative and the 'boys' always listen and only talk when asked to.”
(“Siobhan,” commenting on “Toward A Lifelong Female-Led Marriage: Obedience”)
“The slave should always seek permission to speak before addressing his Mistress… 'Please Mistress your slave/it begs permission to speak’ is appropriate… If I ever wish a conversation with the slave I will initiate one, but it will always occur with him in a position of subjugation. I may even ask his opinion on some matter but I never place the slave in a position where he might get even the slightest idea that he is being treated as an equal… “
(Ingrid Bellemare, Owning and Training a Male Slave)
“My husband is only allowed to talk at the table to answer questions from our daughters or me, which is a good example for our son.”
(Ms. Amanda, “Female Authority Within the Family, Part 2”)
“I decided that, from then on, during dinner my husband would not speak at all unless spoken to specifically and keep his head down as a sign of his subordinate position to me and my daughters. It would also send a good signal to my 8-year-old son who talks too much during dinner. This has worked out really well! My daughters and I have really enjoyed the silence of the males at the table.”
(Ms. Jenn, “Female Authority Within the Family, Part 1”)
(Matriarch “Linda,” quoted by “Sam,” “It’s Holiday Time for the Women”)
“My husband had great difficulties getting used to, as a rule, keeping his mouth shut until he was asked… I cannot explain why it was so hard for him to keep quiet, and it was at times not just annoying but embarrassing, as for instance when he even interrupted a female. Fortunately it has never embarrassed me to use one of the [many convenient] phrases or in other ways making him shut up. It embarrassed him totally, in front of the study group or my friends, having to be reminded that he was supposed to be quiet until asked, and eventually it had the effect that he learned to keep quiet. At home I would scold and slap him for not being quiet in public, and after we came to share our first apartment, he also a few times was caned for this offense.
“In private to be told to shut up had not the same embarrassing effect as when it happened in public, but then other methods could be used, and on occasion I several times kept him quiet for hours by closing his mouth with tape. Combined with stern reprimands, face slapping and at times also a sound spanking, the effect was satisfactory.
“In my house it is a golden rule that, especially at meals, the males do not speak unless spoken to, and on the rare occasions when, despite the rule, it happens that one of them cannot keep his mouth shut, this instantly causes a surprised, almost shocked silence; everybody looks at the culprit who blushes and shamefully lowers his head and whispers an apology. He will of course be dismissed from the table and have to stand in the corner until he later can be punished properly. This rule is not departed from just because we have guests, and not even when the guest is a friend of one of the children.”
(Ms. Charlotte, Female Led Relationships, “Men Who Accept Being Inferior Make the Best Husbands”)