Note from Thomas Lavalle: “Arthur,” a longtime friend of this blog, is a middle-aged American expat current living in an (unspecified) Asian country. His guest posts will focus on his submissive engagement and betrothal (and eventual marriage) to his dominant Asian girlfriend, “Miss Ling,” and the gradual steps she is taking to expand his submissive service to include her two live-in daughters from a previous marriage, “Miss A,” age 14, and “Miss D,” age 23. I’m delighted to offer the first of what I hope will be many updates from "Arthur."
And if we are serious in our Female Led Relationships, as I am, then I believe we must begin to educate our children by encouraging the girls to take charge and expect certain service from the boys; and encourage the boys to serve their sisters and respect their superior status, just as their father does to Mom. No kink, just plain family behavior that stresses the females’ roles as leaders in the household.
The past 2 days I was given the opportunity to iron quite a few work shirts and pants for my wife and her older daughter, Miss D (age 23). My wife expects this now as part of my routine and does not need to thank me, but Miss D did give me a big smile and thanks when she saw her shirts, pants and underwear neatly folded on her bed. Already this morning two pairs of sneakers have been scrubbed and washed and are drying; laundry is in the machine now. The younger daughter, Miss A (age 14), is a little sick today and has stayed home from school. I’m being quiet so she can sleep peacefully.
I kneel on the floor at the foot of the bed to give Miss Ling her footrubs, and must continue to minister to her perfect feet until she says to stop. Usually she will then raise her foot for me to kiss it and thank her, but not always. I am not allowed to ask permission to kiss her foot any more. She will decide. That’s difficult for me, but it’s very empowering for her. And, of course, that’s the most important thing.
Miss Ling has asked me to write down my suggestions for a formal marriage proposal, which will be very different from a typical one. I have pretty much finished, but she wants her “Power Room” (where she takes me to administer punishment) to be finished first, as this is where the proposal event will take place. And she wants her daughters also to be present, perhaps taking a pic or two.
Something to look forward to!