(“Arthur,” a longtime friend of this
blog, continues the story of his submissive engagement and betrothal (and
eventual marriage) to his dominant Asian girlfriend, “Miss Ling,” and his
submissive service to her two live-in daughters from a previous marriage, “Miss
A,” age 14, and “Miss D,” age 23.)
Miss Ling and I will be married soon. Exactly
when I can’t say, since she will decide the date. My “proposal” will also be a
bit different from the usual. I will ask to be allowed to become her husband.
She will have both daughters sitting by her side as I face all three on my
knees. I have prepared in writing, at her request, a proposal ceremony which
she is now reviewing. There may be some changes, corrections, etc., but I think
it honestly reflects our respective positions and brings the girls more into
the FLR experience.
While the wedding guests will be mostly
vanilla, and the ceremony itself will not be “femdom,” I may be required to express my submissiveness
and obedience at some point during the ceremony or reception.
I would say that our FLR is still a work in
progress. Miss Ling is the boss, though she is still learning about and experimenting with
the expanding scope of her powers over me. She decides where we go, what our social
schedule is, when we go to bed, what chores need my special attention. She does
not nitpick, but points out flaws in my housework or laundry performances. She herself
works long hours, so is usually tired when she arrives back home, but has made
it clear to me that when she stops, likely in the coming year, her training of me will intensify, as
will her control and discipline.
Her rules are fairly relaxed, but if she
feels I am on thin ice, she can shut me up by simply extending her foot or
pointing to it. I must stop talking immediately. If she continues to point, I
must kneel and bow to her foot and remain there as she finishes talking and
allows me to thank her and then rise. She understands full well the power of
her feet.
After we are married, she may decide to
exercise complete financial control, though this is still under discussion.
I must check in with her often or she will
call me several times a day just to inquire what I am doing. I will usually ask
permission to do most things outside the house. When I misbehave, I am punished.
(Much more on this later.) I am out of chastity for the moment, but expect to
be locked up again at any time.
(Next post: Arthur details his
submissive proposal to Miss Ling and her daughters.)
Sounds like you're well on your way to having a great FLM. Eager to read your submissive proposal as well. And as far as an FLR being a work in progress, sometimes that's the best way for things to evolve. It also sounds like Miss Ling likes to keep you guessing in some areas, which isn't a bad thing.
ReplyDeleteAgain, from Arthur, responding to Debra's Son just above: "She does, but often she is simply busy, too busy, to concentrate on training. She will stop working in about 6 months, and has indicated that I will see a very different person with plenty of time to really train and use me for Her benefit, and for benefit of all the females in the house."
ReplyDeleteDo you think Miss Ling will allow you to refer to her as "Mrs. Ling" after the two of you are wed?
ReplyDeleteShe prefers 'Miss Ling' still, and expects that.
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